Something I cant get my head around

Well guys and gals, my grandmother passed away the other week, and we had like 15 people staying with us in our house, a tight squeeze but we got there...and now only a week or so after we buried my grandmother, my uncle is only alive with the help of machines...

Apparently he had a blood clot in his brain, and also a bleed in there as well. My aunty was over in England with their daughter because of her health problems, and my uncle was over in France by himself, and he collasped and now has a machine to breathe for him.

I'm absolutely stunned. My Aunty just lost her mum and now her husband too, and so suddenly too. I hate to even think about it, and about them not even knowing that they needed to say goodbye to each other for the last time.

I'm sure I'd have so many regrets about what I should have done or said to my loved one the last time I saw them. Not knowing that they're not going to be there when you get back... far out that is really tripping me out. I cant even get my head around that. It would be extremely hard.

Life really is so short and anything could happen to anyone at anytime..you need to cherish the time you have with the one you love. Dont let anything get in your way of being happy. Love who you want and bugger anyone else, dont worry about what other people think about your partner, straight, gay, lesbian, transsexual, bi, married, divorced, single parent, age difference. Love is love and everyone deserves to be happy, and yes, life is WAY to short to not be happy.